Get Busy Livin’ or Get Busy Dyin’

That’s my favorite line in “The Shawshank Redemption.”

All of us start the road to death from the day we are born. If you’re lucky, you get 80 years to figure things out. But that’s not guaranteed for any of us.

The cycle of life
The cycle of life – it’s faster than you think

During the past four or five years, we’ve had a lot of death. Most recently it was my 95-year-old uncle, but previous deaths ranged from age 21 to almost 100. Plus a dog too young to die to an unborn baby. I can’t cry about the 90-somethings. If they lived a good life, I celebrate them and wish them a hearty bon voyage. If they were unhappy, I feel sorry that they could not enjoy the precious time they had. That’s all we have – time. The here and the now. We all need to embrace it.

I’m reposting a link from Maria Shriver’s blog from a writer who worked with dying people. She interviewed them to find out what their biggest regrets were now that they were facing the end. What do you think the biggest five regrets are from people on their death bed? Do you agree with the comments in this article? Would you add to these list of regrets?

The main reason I made the decision to retire this year rather than wait a few years when I’m 62 and in a better financial situation was exactly to “get busy livin’.” I don’t want any regrets. Well, I have some from the first 57 years (just a few), but I hope to have less from now on.


3 thoughts on “Get Busy Livin’ or Get Busy Dyin’

  1. Sharon, what you wrote was awesome and the link you posted was so true. In the end it isn’t money but who we leave behind and what they think of us. You are an amazing sister and I love you. ♥

  2. Sharon,

    Your writing is really good. I think you touched on an area that haunts the lives of many people, whether they show it or not. Personally, my greatest regret about death is that you don’t get to do a test drive to see if you like it or not.

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